These are the Graphics for my classes in Anacortes, WA. I don’t know if we will use them, but I think it’s nice to have them available to refer to.
- Map of Relationships
- Safety / Lizard
- Reliable Membership
- PreValidation, Validation – Icebergs
- Master Slave (simple); Master Slave (focused); Valley of the Masters
- Communication
- Boundaries for Individuals; Boundaries for Couples
- Frustration and Conflict
- Peace Building
- Survival: Notes for Clingers
- Full Relationship
Here are a few more that we may use:
Map of Relationships (B&W)
ValleyofMasters
DefendingDemocracy
Flow of Feelings
All People Make Sense
Idontknow
Idontknowhowtosayit
Blame or Self-Responsibility
When two people come together, they have a choice: to move toward Peace or to move toward War. The choices and the actions/habits that go with them are clear when one studies couples who are successful at bringing lasting Peace and those who are not. (Sadly, most people I meet chose war!) What do you chose? Here's my essay on this situation.
Relationship confusion. Though I have written many times about this topic, I still find it the hardest for people to grasp. And in all my experience of relating, in starting a relationship, recovering one, maintain a high reliable quality of connection, this is the most important. Here is another attempt to make the relational situation clearer. [I’ve also been reminded that this is Advanced Relationship material – not for beginners.]