Affairs and How I Approach the Topic
Prompted by a friend on an online forum (MarriageAdvocates) I decided to share my view of Affairs. You might call this a Lizard view of Affairs. (This is not beginner material.)
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Where are you? What type of Relationship do you Have? Right now!
A fun article with labels for the different types of relationships. Tis all based on my Map of Relationships and experience. Take this as seriously as you choose.
Using Al Turtle Logic on Relationship Troubles
How to approach relationship challenges? Tis all about applying knowledge of the Biological Dream and learning those skills. Tis all about knowing where you currently are on the Map of Relationships. Here are some examples.
Continue reading →To be Safe You Must Share
People still ask me, How much should I tell my partner? This paper and chart have had quite an impact on people. In some cases it has been "life changing" after one reading. That has surprised and pleased me.
Continue reading →“Out of the Blue” means “Read the Tea Leaves”
So many times I've heard the phrase, "he/she did that out of the blue." I love the phrase. It seems so colorful. And also many people write me, and read my thoughts, about what to do when he/she leaves. Put these two issues together and I give you this article.
Continue reading →Election Year – My Thoughts – Obama
“So, why are you voting for Obama,” I get asked this a lot. It has come up for several months, since I decided to share my preference in this fall’s election. These are my thoughts. They belong to me and yours should differ. If you don't like politics, skip this altogether.
Continue reading →Getting an Answer: When He/She Won’t Make a Decision
A recent letter sparked me to thinking about how I handle this tough situation. I have been using this all purpose skill for a dozen years, recommending it to my clients. Some use it. Some don’t. Sometimes it makes things “better.” Sometimes it seems to make things “worse.” Life is like that. Take a-look.
Continue reading →Notes: Starting a New Couple (First Session)
Notes for a telephone class on my way of doing a first Couple's Session.
Continue reading →Case History: Trust
A wife asking for help at recovering trust for herself in her relationship after she and “he” have separated, come back together, and she no longer believes that he had been faithful during the separation time.
Continue reading →Map of Relationships (Full Version Script) Part V
This is the script of a DVD of the full form of the Map of Relationships. Part V, the Other Doors.
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