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Practical Application of Communologue

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on April 15, 2007 by Al TurtleJanuary 3, 2014 4

This is a writeup of an application of Communologue in a project that I completed 2003-2004.

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Posted in Diversity, Peace Building | Tagged boundary, feelings, master-slave, mastertalk, mirroring, peace, point of view, pulling, safety, trust, validation | 4 Replies

Facilitating Dialogue: A Strong Technique

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on March 25, 2007 by Al TurtleJanuary 3, 2014  

This is a technique I use in the office when people are very reactive about an incident. I use it often. I have noticed that I refer to it in one of my most popular articles – on Resentments. Yet, nowhere have I written up how to do it. So, here goes.

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An Application of Communologue: United Way of Kootenai County

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on November 11, 2006 by Al TurtleJuly 7, 2023  

By Donald L. Gibbon. Northern Idaho sounds like it should be about as far away from 21st century social ills as you could get and still have access to modern America’s social benefits. Coeur d’Alene, known to demographers and government bureaucrats as CdA, has a population of only about 35,000, but it’s still the largest town in the state north of Boise, some 460 long miles to the south.

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Posted in Diversity, Peace Building | Tagged dialogue, feelings, Imago, mirroring, point of view, pulling, safety, trust, validation | Leave a reply

Guiding Communologue

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on November 2, 2006 by Al TurtleFebruary 8, 2019  

A list of interventions that can be used to create and maintain a dialogical group atmosphere. A new guideline added on Nov 27, '07.

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The Odd Dialogue Practice

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on July 18, 2006 by Al TurtleMay 3, 2012 4

This is a beginner, Validation exercise. You are Uninformed at that point when you think your partner is doing something odd or that “doesn’t make sense to you.” If you were informed, you wouldn’t think it odd, and you would see your partner’s sense. Use this practice sheet to get good at Validating.

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Posted in Communication, Diversity | Tagged dialogue, feelings, make sense, mirroring, point of view, validation | 4 Replies

Interviewing the Elephant

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on July 7, 2006 by Al TurtleFebruary 10, 2019  

About guiding people into dialogical space.

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Posted in Communication, Diversity, Peace Building | Tagged dialogue, Imago, master-slave, mastertalk, peace, point of view, safety, share, trust | Leave a reply

Notes: Guiding Dialogue (5 July 2006)

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on July 5, 2006 by Al TurtleFebruary 10, 2019  

Notes for a Class on Guiding Dialogue

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Guide’s Role in Communologue

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on June 3, 2006 by Al TurtleSeptember 25, 2012  

Thoughts on the Role of a Communologue Facilitator.

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Relativity and Relationships: Military Think

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on April 10, 2006 by Al TurtleJune 27, 2019  

I was amused to find that Einstein wrote about the same struggles I see in couples – who's point of view is the right one. Often a couple will say "we are arguing over the silliest of things." I usually reply, "I don't think so. I think you are struggling over something very important – who is boss. And this decision can seem like life and death." Here is more about this topic.

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Glossary of Terms

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on April 7, 2006 by Al TurtleJanuary 24, 2023 2

This is an often requested list of brief definitions of my words. From time to time I will add to this list. Insert these words in the Search function on the front page of my website to see the articles where I use these terms.

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Posted in Diversity, Main Page, References, Reliable Membership | Tagged boundary, codependency, codependent, dialogue, fault, feelings, Imago, make sense, master-slave, mastertalk, mirroring, passivity, point of view, pulling, safety, share, trust, validation | 2 Replies

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