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Getting to Work

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on June 20, 2012 by Al TurtleApril 10, 2020 13

Work, Work!  In this article I want to share my view of the process of how to get a great relationship from the very widest perspective. I suggest that you read my paper on the Map of Relationship first, to prepare to  grasp this view.

 

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Posted in Diversity, Main Page, Map of Relationships, Reliable Membership | Tagged boundary, choice point, dialogue, fault, feelings, make sense, master-slave, passivity, peace, point of view, pulling, safety, share, trust, university of life, validation | 13 Replies

Using Al Turtle Logic on Relationship Troubles

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on June 1, 2010 by Al TurtleNovember 22, 2019 17

How to approach relationship challenges? Tis all about applying knowledge of the Biological Dream and learning those skills. Tis all about knowing where you currently are on the Map of Relationships. Here are some examples.

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Posted in Diversity, Main Page, Map of Relationships, Reliable Membership | Tagged affair, boundary, choice point, dialogue, fault, feelings, make sense, master-slave, mastertalk, mirroring, narcisism, passivity, safety, share, trust, university of life, validation | 17 Replies

Notes: Starting a New Couple (First Session)

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on July 18, 2007 by Al TurtleDecember 7, 2017  

Notes for a telephone class on my way of doing a first Couple's Session.

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Posted in Diversity, Map of Relationships, Reliable Membership, Skills | Tagged affair, boundary, choice point, dialogue, feelings, Imago, master-slave, mirroring, pulling, safety, share, trust, validation | Leave a reply

Map of Relationships (Full Version Script) Part V

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on February 1, 2006 by Al TurtleJune 16, 2019  

This is the script of a DVD of the full form of the Map of Relationships. Part V, the Other Doors.

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Posted in Map of Relationships, Reliable Membership | Tagged affair, choice point, dialogue, feelings, Imago, point of view, safety, share, trust, university of life, validation | Leave a reply

Map of Relationships (Full Version Script) Part IV

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on February 1, 2006 by Al TurtleJune 16, 2019 2

This is the script of a DVD of the full form of the Map of Relationships. Part IV, Relationship Framework.

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Posted in Diversity, Map of Relationships, Reliable Membership | Tagged choice point, dialogue, feelings, make sense, master-slave, need for connection, peace, pulling, safety, share, trust | 2 Replies

Map of Relationships (Full Version Script) Part III

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on February 1, 2006 by Al TurtleJune 16, 2019 4

This is the script of a DVD of the full form of the Map of Relationships. Part III of the Map of Relationships.  Compares Romantic Love and Vintage Love.  Romantic Love always, always always ends.  It has to.  Anyone who says it doesn't might be selling snake oil. 

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Posted in Map of Relationships | Tagged choice point, dialogue, fault, feelings, passivity, point of view, pulling, share, trust | 4 Replies

Map of Relationships: 2003 Version

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on March 12, 2005 by Al TurtleSeptember 25, 2012 1

This is the whole story of intimate relationships. I wrote this early version in the September of 2003, after all the pieces had fallen into place in my head.

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Posted in Diversity, Map of Relationships, Reliable Membership | Tagged affair, boundary, choice point, dialogue, feelings, Imago, master-slave, passivity, point of view, pulling, safety, share, trust, university of life | 1 Reply

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