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An Interview Series

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on March 17, 2010 by Al TurtleJune 16, 2019 7

Tis done. Here are 8 hours of chatting about my work. Laura is a very helpful interviewer and producer. Check out other work she does. This article has the links to MP3 files of all sessions. Download and enjoy.

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Posted in Main Page, Map of Relationships, Podcasts | Tagged boundary, mirroring, passivity, safety, trust | 7 Replies

It started with the word “Resentment”

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on February 10, 2010 by Al TurtleSeptember 25, 2012  

Written: Aug 4th, 2009. “I stumbled upon you site after googling resentment! After years of an emotional roller coaster marriage…things are finally making sense!”

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“Pulling Back, Not Pushing, yet Wanting to Talk.”

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on July 7, 2008 by Al TurtleSeptember 25, 2012 1

Here's a letter by another clinger (Bless her and all the clingers out there), about learning from my website and applying what she has learned. Wow, working on yourself can be really eventful!

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Posted in Fan Letters | Tagged dialogue, essay, feelings, Imago, make sense, pulling, safety, share, trust, validation | 1 Reply

“He's leaving. I'm trying.”

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on July 6, 2008 by Al TurtleSeptember 25, 2012 3

This is the story of a woman who believes her partner is leaving, and doesn't want him to. She kinda followed him across the country, but managed to keep learning the lesson, “Work on your self, visibly.” She's good, but learning is not easy! (Names have been changed)

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Posted in Fan Letters, Map of Relationships | Tagged dialogue, fault, feelings, pulling, safety, share, trust, validation | 3 Replies

Help, Join In, Leave your footprint (testimonials welcome)

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on March 12, 2008 by Al TurtleMarch 12, 2008  

Your suggestions could really shape the future here at this website and in the place in the forest where I often sit!

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Posted in Fan Letters | Tagged dialogue, safety, share | Leave a reply

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Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on August 10, 2007 by Al TurtleApril 17, 2012  

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Case History: Trust

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on August 30, 2006 by Al TurtleApril 21, 2020  

A wife asking for help at recovering trust for herself in her relationship after she and “he” have separated, come back together, and she no longer believes that he had been faithful during the separation time.

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(audio commentary) Guiding Communologue – Interventions

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on July 20, 2006 by Al TurtleJune 26, 2012  

This is an audio file of my thoughts about guiding Communologue, listing and explaining the interventions I believe are important. …

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(audio) OneLiners #21-77

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on July 17, 2006 by Al TurtleFebruary 11, 2015  

These podcasts, audio recordings, include additional material on the remaining oneliners, from #21 up.

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(audio) Listen to the Master/Slave Lecture

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on July 10, 2006 by Al TurtleMarch 22, 2020  

Here is the Master/Slave Lecture AudioFile.  FREE DOWNLOAD The Master/Slave chart is here.  The Master/Slave Essay is here.

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Posted in Autonomy, Podcasts | Tagged dialogue, essay, safety, share | Leave a reply

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