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Category Archives: Couple’s Histories

It started with the word “Resentment”

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on February 10, 2010 by Al TurtleSeptember 25, 2012  

Written: Aug 4th, 2009. “I stumbled upon you site after googling resentment! After years of an emotional roller coaster marriage…things are finally making sense!”

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Case History: Trust

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on August 30, 2006 by Al TurtleApril 21, 2020  

A wife asking for help at recovering trust for herself in her relationship after she and “he” have separated, come back together, and she no longer believes that he had been faithful during the separation time.

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Posted in Couple's Histories, Map of Relationships | Tagged affair, safety, trust | Leave a reply

Histories: She/He has left. Now what?

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on October 26, 2005 by Al TurtleSeptember 25, 2012 1

This is so common. Oh, I feel sorry for everyone involved. I think I have seen this situation 6 times this month. A person calls in, ?their whole life has changed?, ?their dreams are shattered?, and ?they don?t know what to do.? Their partner of 5 years, 14 years, 33 years, has announced they are leaving, or they have packed up and gone, or they have found someone new and now want to cut the ties with their ?older? partner. The person calling feels surprised, betrayed and hurt. What to do?

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Posted in Couple's Histories, Diversity, Reliable Membership | Tagged dialogue, make sense, mirroring, point of view, pulling, share, trust, validation | 1 Reply

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