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Interviewing the Elephant

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on July 7, 2006 by Al TurtleFebruary 10, 2019  

About guiding people into dialogical space.

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Posted in Communication, Diversity, Peace Building | Tagged dialogue, Imago, master-slave, mastertalk, peace, point of view, safety, share, trust | Leave a reply

Guide’s Role in Communologue

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on June 3, 2006 by Al TurtleSeptember 25, 2012  

Thoughts on the Role of a Communologue Facilitator.

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Posted in Diversity, Peace Building | Tagged boundary, Imago, master-slave, mastertalk, mirroring, safety, trust, validation | Leave a reply

Glossary of Terms

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on April 7, 2006 by Al TurtleJanuary 24, 2023 2

This is an often requested list of brief definitions of my words. From time to time I will add to this list. Insert these words in the Search function on the front page of my website to see the articles where I use these terms.

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Posted in Diversity, Main Page, References, Reliable Membership | Tagged boundary, codependency, codependent, dialogue, fault, feelings, Imago, make sense, master-slave, mastertalk, mirroring, passivity, point of view, pulling, safety, share, trust, validation | 2 Replies

Map of Relationships (Full Version Script) Part VI

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on February 1, 2006 by Al TurtleJune 16, 2019  

This is the script of a DVD of the full form of the Map of Relationships. Part VI, Questions and Answers.

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Posted in Diversity, Map of Relationships, Reliable Membership | Tagged boundary, dialogue, feelings, Imago, master-slave, point of view, safety, share, trust, university of life | Leave a reply

Map of Relationships (Full Version Script) Part V

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on February 1, 2006 by Al TurtleJune 16, 2019  

This is the script of a DVD of the full form of the Map of Relationships. Part V, the Other Doors.

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Posted in Map of Relationships, Reliable Membership | Tagged affair, choice point, dialogue, feelings, Imago, point of view, safety, share, trust, university of life, validation | Leave a reply

Map of Relationships (Full Version Script) Part IV

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on February 1, 2006 by Al TurtleJune 16, 2019 2

This is the script of a DVD of the full form of the Map of Relationships. Part IV, Relationship Framework.

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Posted in Diversity, Map of Relationships, Reliable Membership | Tagged choice point, dialogue, feelings, make sense, master-slave, need for connection, peace, pulling, safety, share, trust | 2 Replies

Map of Relationships (Full Version Script) Part II

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on February 1, 2006 by Al TurtleJune 16, 2019  

This is the script of a DVD of the full form of the Map of Relationships. Part II, Blind Alleys.

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Caring Behaviors

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on January 30, 2006 by Al TurtleJanuary 30, 2006 8

This paper is an excerpt from my essay on SAFETY, The Lizard. It describes tactics for “making your partner feel safe.”

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Posted in Safety and Trust | Tagged essay, feelings, Imago, pulling, safety, trust | 8 Replies

Restructuring Frustration: The Process

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on December 9, 2005 by Al TurtleOctober 1, 2016 1

This article is the result of 10 years of practice by my wife and I. It is a step by step structured process that will eventually both remove all critical frustrations from a relationship but will also build confidence and skills in dealing with new frustrations when they arise.

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Posted in Healing the Past | Tagged dialogue, fault, feelings, make sense, mirroring, pulling, safety, share, trust, validation | 1 Reply

MasterTalk: A very simple idea

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on December 6, 2005 by Al TurtleMay 17, 2012  

So what, after all is said and done is this thing called MasterTalk? I believe that because of some features of our language system we can speak things that do not exist. I see MasterTalk as a way of speaking from the omniscient point of view ? which exists in literature but not in real life.

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Posted in Autonomy | Tagged dialogue, master-slave, mastertalk, mirroring, point of view, safety, share | Leave a reply

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