Safety and The Lizard: A Chart
This is the chart that goes with the Safety/Lizard Essay.
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The Biological Dream: An Excerpt
The Biological Dream is the core of my beliefs about the function of Romantic Relationships. This is an excerpt from my essay on the Map of Relationships.
Continue reading →What kind of Community are we designed for?
An article from 1999, that shows the development of my thinking at that point about the role of a community in safety for the individual.
Continue reading →What to do when he/she won’t talk to you.
Amazingly this is a very common occurrance and there is something you can do. I am particularly familiar with this …
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The Importance of the Skills of Being a Source of Safety to your Partner, Friends and Enemies. I have found …
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