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Map of Relationships (Full Version Script) Part V

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on February 1, 2006 by Al TurtleJune 16, 2019  

This is the script of a DVD of the full form of the Map of Relationships. Part V, the Other Doors.

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Posted in Map of Relationships, Reliable Membership | Tagged affair, choice point, dialogue, feelings, Imago, point of view, safety, share, trust, university of life, validation | Leave a reply

Map of Relationships (Full Version Script) Part IV

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on February 1, 2006 by Al TurtleJune 16, 2019 2

This is the script of a DVD of the full form of the Map of Relationships. Part IV, Relationship Framework.

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Posted in Diversity, Map of Relationships, Reliable Membership | Tagged choice point, dialogue, feelings, make sense, master-slave, need for connection, peace, pulling, safety, share, trust | 2 Replies

Map of Relationships (Full Version Script) Part III

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on February 1, 2006 by Al TurtleJune 16, 2019 4

This is the script of a DVD of the full form of the Map of Relationships. Part III of the Map of Relationships.  Compares Romantic Love and Vintage Love.  Romantic Love always, always always ends.  It has to.  Anyone who says it doesn't might be selling snake oil. 

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Posted in Map of Relationships | Tagged choice point, dialogue, fault, feelings, passivity, point of view, pulling, share, trust | 4 Replies

Map of Relationships (Full Version Script) Part II

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on February 1, 2006 by Al TurtleJune 16, 2019  

This is the script of a DVD of the full form of the Map of Relationships. Part II, Blind Alleys.

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Map of Relationships (Full Version Script) Part I

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on February 1, 2006 by Al TurtleJune 16, 2019 9

This is the script of a DVD of the full form of the Map of Relationships. Part I, Introduction.

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Posted in Map of Relationships | Tagged dialogue, feelings, make sense, share | 9 Replies

Earn it or Spend it: Interpersonal Capital

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on January 31, 2006 by Al TurtleMay 28, 2014 2

A simple look at ways of getting people to do what you want and like you. "What can you do to make them inclined to do what you want. What are you doing that makes them not inclined to do what you want."

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Posted in Main Page, Skills | Tagged boundary, dialogue, mirroring, share, trust, validation | 2 Replies

Caring Behaviors

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on January 30, 2006 by Al TurtleJanuary 30, 2006 8

This paper is an excerpt from my essay on SAFETY, The Lizard. It describes tactics for “making your partner feel safe.”

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Posted in Safety and Trust | Tagged essay, feelings, Imago, pulling, safety, trust | 8 Replies

Restructuring Frustration: The Process

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on December 9, 2005 by Al TurtleOctober 1, 2016 1

This article is the result of 10 years of practice by my wife and I. It is a step by step structured process that will eventually both remove all critical frustrations from a relationship but will also build confidence and skills in dealing with new frustrations when they arise.

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Posted in Healing the Past | Tagged dialogue, fault, feelings, make sense, mirroring, pulling, safety, share, trust, validation | 1 Reply

MasterTalk: A very simple idea

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on December 6, 2005 by Al TurtleMay 17, 2012  

So what, after all is said and done is this thing called MasterTalk? I believe that because of some features of our language system we can speak things that do not exist. I see MasterTalk as a way of speaking from the omniscient point of view ? which exists in literature but not in real life.

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Story: What I have to give.

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on November 23, 2005 by Al TurtleFebruary 8, 2019  

A Story from the Aztec People of Mexico. Quoted in M.Wheatley, turning to one another. (2001)

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