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Celebrating Morning at Emerald Bay in Mazatlan Mexico

September 25, 2007 by Al Turtle Posted in Mexico Reply

Guilt, Fault, and Who is to Blame

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on August 29, 2007 by Al TurtleSeptember 25, 2012 3

My gosh, people get this simple issue so confused.  It isn’t all that difficult.  Here’s my poster on it.

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Posted in Boundaries, Main Page | Tagged boundary, dialogue, fault, passivity | 3 Replies

Flying a Great Relationship

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on August 29, 2007 by Al TurtleJune 16, 2019 1

People ask me how hard is a great relationship, and I am responding more and more that “it is not rocket science.” 

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But I have come across an image, that isn’t far from what most of us think is “rocket science,” that may be helpful to you.

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Notes: On Teaching Validation

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on August 29, 2007 by Al TurtleSeptember 25, 2012  

Notes on my seminar about Validation. I share what I have learned, how, and what I have come to believe validation is.

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Posted in Diversity | Tagged dialogue, Imago, make sense, master-slave, mastertalk, mirroring, peace, point of view, safety, share, validation | Leave a reply

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Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on August 10, 2007 by Al TurtleApril 17, 2012  

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Notes: On Teaching Mirroring

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on August 1, 2007 by Al TurtleFebruary 8, 2020 2

These are my notes for teaching Mirroring and for a class on “How to Teach Mirroring.”

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Posted in Communication, Diversity | Tagged boundary, dialogue, feelings, Imago, master-slave, mastertalk, mirroring, pulling, safety, share, trust, validation | 2 Replies

Notes: Starting a New Couple (First Session)

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on July 18, 2007 by Al TurtleDecember 7, 2017  

Notes for a telephone class on my way of doing a first Couple's Session.

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Find Mr. Right or Ms. Right

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on June 21, 2007 by Al TurtleJune 16, 2019 21

This question comes in often. “I am single and am looking for a partner. I know I have defects. How do I attract the right partner, one I can work with? How do I go about it?”

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Posted in Map of Relationships, Reliable Membership | Tagged feelings, Imago, point of view, safety, trust, university of life | 21 Replies

Decision Making in a Heirarchy

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on June 14, 2007 by Al TurtleApril 11, 2018  

This is an excerpt from my paper on Dialogue in a Hierarchy. It focuses on decision making. It now includes a chart.

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Grizzly Prints

Sandra's hand next to a rear footprint of a Grizzly.    A front print is lower to the right.   We saw the bear.  Early spring bears can be kind of growly, so we kept our distance.

Picture was taken in Yellowstone Park near a thermal pool, Mud Volcano area of Hayden Meadows, May 20th, 2007.

June 5, 2007 by Al Turtle Posted in Drive Abouts Reply

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