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Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on August 10, 2007 by Al TurtleApril 17, 2012  

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Stop the Divorce

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on June 14, 2005 by Al TurtleFebruary 7, 2019 8

Stop the Divorce: Now I am not saying that you are thinking the wrong thing. In fact, I am glad you are considering divorce. I don't think you would be thinking of this, if things were going well. I tend to believe you are thinking divorce as a last and worst choice.

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Stop Domestic Violence

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on June 13, 2005 by Al TurtleFebruary 7, 2019 1

Look, domestic violence is nothing more that the behavior of a bully or bullies who grew up learning that tantrums get you what you want. It is nothing more than the action of a person who is “in control,” doing what they were taught, over and over as they grew up. And it is a hard habit or learning to stop – just like any other habit that works sometimes. It will taper off or stop when that behavior clearly no longer works.

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Relationship Help

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on June 12, 2005 by Al TurtleFebruary 7, 2019  

Relationship Help!: I've never met anyone whose intimate relationship couldn't use some help. We don't know how to solve everything. If our parents had trouble, they didn't know how to solve everything and thus they couldn't teach us.
At some point, each of us run up against problems that we don't have the tools to solve.

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Marriage Help

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on June 12, 2005 by Al TurtleFebruary 7, 2019  

Marriage Help!: I've never met anyone whose marriage couldn't use some help. We don't know how to solve everything. If our parents had trouble, they didn't know how to solve everything and thus they couldn't teach us. As some point each of us run up against problems that we don't have the tools to solve. The wise thing to do at that point is to learn. Start to study. Look for people who have solved that trouble. Try new things. Read books. Get help. And don't wait. Most couples that come to me seem to wait until the very last moment.

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Stop The Blaming

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on June 11, 2005 by Al TurtleFebruary 7, 2019  

Hey, I know you can see things that your partner could improve. The longer you live with someone, the more you can see their potential – which is the flip side of saying “their shortcomings.”
The question is, what do you do with this information?

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Learn Good Communication

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on June 9, 2005 by Al TurtleFebruary 7, 2019  

Learn Good Communication: It is not that hard, but it does take training. Communication is a skill. If you don't have good communication, it just means you had poor training. Good communication comes naturally to those who were taught good communication as children. It is never to late to learn. If poor communications is your problem, fix it. Learn. I did.

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Better Marriages

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on June 8, 2005 by Al TurtleFebruary 7, 2019  

Better Marriages: I believe this is your right, and you are designed for it. And I believe it is very possible. It just takes effort. This site is dedicated to sharing with you what I believe you need to do to make this happen. Thank you for visiting, and enjoy.

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