↓
 
  • How to Chat with Al
  • How to Use this Website
  • Glossary of Terms

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom

My Essays, Articles and Discussions

  • Home
  • Relationship Menus
    • Map of Relationships
    • Skills Menus
      • Safety and Trust
      • Reliable Membership
      • Diversity
      • Autonomy
      • Purpose
      • Communication
      • Boundaries
      • Feelings and Emotions
      • Healing the Past
    • Solving Problems
    • Stories
  • Peace Building
  • References
    • Couple’s Histories
    • Podcasts
  • Photos
    • Animals
    • Around the US
    • Drive Abouts
    • Polynesia
    • Pacific Northwest
    • Istanbul, January 2005
  • About Us
Home→Tags share - Page 12 << 1 2 … 10 11 12

Tag Archives: share

Post navigation

Newer posts →

Mirroring as a Training Tool

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on March 14, 2005 by Al TurtleMay 17, 2012 1

This is a true story I sometimes tell people who are first learning to use Mirroring and who are resisting practicing.

Continue reading →
Posted in Communication | Tagged dialogue, feelings, mirroring, share | 1 Reply

MasterTalk: Samples of Dealing with it.

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on March 12, 2005 by Al TurtleSeptember 12, 2013 5

I use these three terms (Master, Slave, Friend) to refer to the three positions from which and to which communication can be addressed. These are similar to the positions in Transactional Analysis of Parent, Child, and Adult. No one is a Master. They just speak, and perhaps think, from the Master position. No one is a Slave. They just speak from the Slave position.
MasterTalk seems extremely easy to identify in conversation and writing.

Continue reading →
Posted in Autonomy, Diversity | Tagged boundary, dialogue, master-slave, mastertalk, mirroring, point of view, share | 5 Replies

MasterTalk: The Language

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on March 12, 2005 by Al TurtleOctober 29, 2012  

Handling the language of Master/Slave Relationships

Continue reading →
Posted in Autonomy, Diversity, Reliable Membership | Tagged boundary, dialogue, master-slave, mastertalk, mirroring, narcisism, point of view, pulling, safety, share, trust | Leave a reply

Map of Relationships: 2003 Version

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on March 12, 2005 by Al TurtleSeptember 25, 2012 1

This is the whole story of intimate relationships. I wrote this early version in the September of 2003, after all the pieces had fallen into place in my head.

Continue reading →
Posted in Diversity, Map of Relationships, Reliable Membership | Tagged affair, boundary, choice point, dialogue, feelings, Imago, master-slave, passivity, point of view, pulling, safety, share, trust, university of life | 1 Reply

Reliable Membership: A Chart

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on March 9, 2005 by Al TurtleJune 16, 2019  

This is the chart I share with couples who are experiencing this trouble.

Continue reading →
Posted in Reliable Membership | Tagged dialogue, share, trust | Leave a reply

Reliable Membership: The Essay

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on March 9, 2005 by Al TurtleOctober 23, 2014 102

I believe all humans require reliable connection with other humans. I see this as the principle drive that moves us, and holds us, together in partnership. At any given time one partner will probably need more and one will probably need less connection. Managing this becomes a challenge and sometimes an enormous stumbling block. Here are the principles and the solutions.

Continue reading →
Posted in Reliable Membership | Tagged affair, dialogue, essay, fault, feelings, need for connection, peace, point of view, pulling, safety, share, trust | 102 Replies

Post navigation

Newer posts →

Enter Words / Phrases

Friend Sites

  • Imago Relationship Therapy
  • Relationship Builders: Hedy & Yumi
  • Jim Wells
  • Laura Lavigne
  • Owen Pearn (Owenparachute)

Marriage Advocates Discussions

  • 1 – Safety
  • 2 – Reliable Membership
  • 3 – Bullying and being Passive
  • 4 – Validation. Understanding.
  • 5 – Map of Relationships.
  • 6 – Unavoidable Collapse of Romance
  • 7 – Communication Skills

Recent Comments

  • Being Sheryl – The Self-Help Whisperer® on You Make Sense – Always!
  • Takipçi Satın Al on “Tortoise Trainer” by Osman Hamdi Bei
  • Lou_E on The Glories of Rebellion, Stubbornness and Passivity
  • Combating Loneliness – Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom on Reliable Membership: The Essay
  • sensation seeker on How to Use this Website
Footer HTML
©2025 - Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom - Weaver Xtreme Theme
↑