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The Logic of Power Differentials: Heirarchy and Dialogue

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on June 14, 2005 by Al TurtleJune 16, 2019 4

I am presenting this paper as a discussion of dialogue norms to use in Power Differential Relationships. My goal is to re-approach One-up/One-down situations from the relational model, the dialogical model that is central to Imago Relationship theory and practice.
The paper is divided into three sections:
1. Types of Power Differential Situations
2. Decision Making as the legitimate reason for Power Differential Situations
3. The Four Challenges facing groups trying to make decisions.

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Posted in Diversity, Peace Building, Reliable Membership | Tagged affair, boundary, dialogue, feelings, Imago, master-slave, mastertalk, mirroring, narcisism, passivity, peace, point of view, pulling, safety, share, trust, validation | 4 Replies

Feelings and Emotions: The Essay, Part Two (FEAR, ANGER, GRIEF, JOY)

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on April 13, 2005 by Al TurtleSeptember 3, 2024 6

Now, I want to address the four prime emotions of fear, anger, grief and joy. Why only four? Well, these are the ones that give most people lots of trouble, both in having them, dealing with them and communicating about them. I will address one at a time, starting with FEAR.

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Posted in Feelings and Emotions | Tagged affair, dialogue, essay, feelings, peace, point of view, pulling, safety, share, trust | 6 Replies

Directions to Go

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on March 18, 2005 by Al TurtleFebruary 7, 2019 6

A listing of possible relationship problems – linked to solutions.

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Posted in Diversity, Main Page, Map of Relationships, Reliable Membership | Tagged affair, boundary, essay, feelings, make sense, master-slave, safety, trust, validation | 6 Replies

Map of Relationships: 2003 Version

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on March 12, 2005 by Al TurtleSeptember 25, 2012 1

This is the whole story of intimate relationships. I wrote this early version in the September of 2003, after all the pieces had fallen into place in my head.

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Posted in Diversity, Map of Relationships, Reliable Membership | Tagged affair, boundary, choice point, dialogue, feelings, Imago, master-slave, passivity, point of view, pulling, safety, share, trust, university of life | 1 Reply

Reliable Membership: The Essay

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on March 9, 2005 by Al TurtleOctober 23, 2014 102

I believe all humans require reliable connection with other humans. I see this as the principle drive that moves us, and holds us, together in partnership. At any given time one partner will probably need more and one will probably need less connection. Managing this becomes a challenge and sometimes an enormous stumbling block. Here are the principles and the solutions.

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Posted in Reliable Membership | Tagged affair, dialogue, essay, fault, feelings, need for connection, peace, point of view, pulling, safety, share, trust | 102 Replies

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