Master/Slave: A Chart
The chart that goes with the Master/Slave paper.
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Emotional Symbiosis: Definition
From the point of view of relationships, I think this “the disease of the disease”, the source behind so much trouble. Most everyone in our country suffers from this disease. And it is even taught on TV. I believe this is the source of MasterTalk.
Continue reading →Diversity and PreValidation: The Essay
This is the lesson I teach every person I see. This is critical information for people who are puzzled, bothered, or upset when they find they disagree or that others disagree with them.
These concepts are vital to the practice of Dialogue and Communologue.
Continue reading →How much should you tell?
This discusses a great and eroding problem within a relationship: keeping silent, keeping secrets.
Continue reading →Directions to Go
A listing of possible relationship problems – linked to solutions.
Continue reading →Problems Solving: A Chart
This is the chart that goes with the paper. Good skills to learn.
Continue reading →PreValidation: More Thoughts
Here are some more thoughts about PreValidation and Validation.
Continue reading →Resentments: Getting Rid of Them
This paper discusses the issue of Resentment that from time to time becomes an important issue in couples or between groups of people. It includes suggestions on how to remove the resentment. I believe this cannot be done, passively, by waiting. Resentment does not seem to go away by letting time pass. I believe resentment only goes away via the use of validation, and dialogue.
Diversity and PreValidation: A Chart
To really grasp Diversity, I think people need to have an image, a model, that makes sense of Understanding and Validation. I have used this model for three years and it works. It defines “making sense”, “understanding”, “validation” and that most valuable of skills, “PreValidation”.
Continue reading →Story: The Water Buffalo
This story is about hopeless habit of pointing fingers at the action or the one who “angers you.” I call it “Where to focus when you are upset.”
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