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Earn it or Spend it: Interpersonal Capital

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on January 31, 2006 by Al TurtleMay 28, 2014 2

A simple look at ways of getting people to do what you want and like you. "What can you do to make them inclined to do what you want. What are you doing that makes them not inclined to do what you want."

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Posted in Main Page, Skills | Tagged boundary, dialogue, mirroring, share, trust, validation | 2 Replies

Caring Behaviors

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on January 30, 2006 by Al TurtleJanuary 30, 2006 8

This paper is an excerpt from my essay on SAFETY, The Lizard. It describes tactics for “making your partner feel safe.”

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Posted in Safety and Trust | Tagged essay, feelings, Imago, pulling, safety, trust | 8 Replies

Pueblo Bonito, Cabo San Lucas

January 30, 2006 by Al Turtle Posted in Mexico Reply

Cabo San Lucas, Evening

January 30, 2006 by Al Turtle Posted in Mexico Reply

Morning Cup of Coffee, Pueblo Bonito, Cabo San Lucas

After our walk we read on our porch for a little.

January 30, 2006 by Al Turtle Posted in Mexico Reply

My Christmas Present, 2005, Syrene

January 8, 2006 by Al Turtle Posted in Animals Reply

Group Core Beliefs

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on January 7, 2006 by Al TurtleSeptember 25, 2012  

Strange that last night these came to me. Another new way of looking at “being together in durable peacefulness.” Empower whatever group you are in to do the following.

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Posted in Peace Building | Tagged dialogue, master-slave, mastertalk, share | Leave a reply

Words / Lyrics for the Holiday Sing-Along with Mitch Miller

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on December 24, 2005 by Al TurtleSeptember 6, 2022 11

Here are the lyrics from the Holiday Sing-Along with Mitch Miller. I grabbed them or typed them in about 6 years ago. Don't know where I got them from. Merry Christmas.

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Restructuring Frustration: The Process

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on December 9, 2005 by Al TurtleOctober 1, 2016 1

This article is the result of 10 years of practice by my wife and I. It is a step by step structured process that will eventually both remove all critical frustrations from a relationship but will also build confidence and skills in dealing with new frustrations when they arise.

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Posted in Healing the Past | Tagged dialogue, fault, feelings, make sense, mirroring, pulling, safety, share, trust, validation | 1 Reply

MasterTalk: A very simple idea

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on December 6, 2005 by Al TurtleMay 17, 2012  

So what, after all is said and done is this thing called MasterTalk? I believe that because of some features of our language system we can speak things that do not exist. I see MasterTalk as a way of speaking from the omniscient point of view ? which exists in literature but not in real life.

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