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(audio) OneLiners: #11 thru #20

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on July 11, 2005 by Al TurtleJune 16, 2019  

#11 – #20 of my Dialogical OneLiners

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(audio) OneLiners: #1 thru #10

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on July 11, 2005 by Al TurtleFebruary 11, 2015  

#1 – #10 of my Dialogical One Liners

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(audio) Introduction to My Oneliners

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on July 10, 2005 by Al TurtleFebruary 11, 2015  

Podcast of an Introduction to Dialogical One Liners.

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Are You a Controller? Sure you are.

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on June 29, 2005 by Al TurtleAugust 30, 2022  

Probably about 70% of couples I see have a significant problem with controlling. What is this? How does it work? What can you do about it? In this article I will try to answer those questions and share solutions with you.

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Posted in Autonomy | Tagged dialogue, fault, feelings, master-slave, mastertalk, mirroring, narcisism, peace, safety, share, trust, validation | Leave a reply

Chapman Lake, near Cheney, Washington 6/25/05

June 27, 2005 by Al Turtle Posted in Pacific Northwest Reply

Peace Decays into War in Discrete Steps

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on June 20, 2005 by Al TurtleJune 16, 2019  

A chart of how normal discourse collapses thru arguing, thru violence, into the form of communication we call WARFARE.

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From Motu Tapu, Bora Bora, Polynesia

June 20, 2005 by Al Turtle Posted in Polynesia Reply

Lagoon, Bora Bora, Polynesia

June 18, 2005 by Al Turtle Posted in Polynesia Reply

It only takes ONE to make a marriage, but TWO to make a divorce.

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on June 16, 2005 by Al TurtleApril 13, 2013 17

After many years of working with couples, I have come to this conclusion. Marriage, or an intimate partnership, takes two people. It takes both to decide to divorce and carry it through. But it takes only one of them to lead the way into a great relationship.

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Stop the Divorce

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on June 14, 2005 by Al TurtleFebruary 7, 2019 8

Stop the Divorce: Now I am not saying that you are thinking the wrong thing. In fact, I am glad you are considering divorce. I don't think you would be thinking of this, if things were going well. I tend to believe you are thinking divorce as a last and worst choice.

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