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Story: Why the Chimes Rang

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on February 2, 2013 by AlFebruary 2, 2013 1

This was a story I heard read aloud at Christmas time at my primary school.  As I read it today, I can still hear the deep voice of Mr. Caswell, the principle. It affected me greatly and shifted my life for the better.  

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Story: What I have to give.

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on November 23, 2005 by Al TurtleFebruary 8, 2019  

A Story from the Aztec People of Mexico. Quoted in M.Wheatley, turning to one another. (2001)

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Story: SeaPeople and Their Ships

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on August 2, 2005 by Al TurtleFebruary 8, 2019  

A story I wrote ten years ago about raising children and the responsibility for doing a good job. I believe parents do their best, and frequently their best is not very good.

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Story: Stripey, Helping other people relax.

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on July 25, 2005 by Al TurtleNovember 13, 2013 1

A particular puzzle is how to relax other people when they get tense. This true story of an old cat may help – in a kind of backwards way.

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Story: Are you trying to love and not getting anywhere?

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on April 5, 2005 by Al TurtleSeptember 25, 2012 1

I learn a lot from the men in my men’s group. We talk of safety and validation all the time. Here is a story about wasting your energy on the wrong stuff – loving in a way that doesn't work.

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Story: The Water Buffalo

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on March 15, 2005 by Al TurtleSeptember 25, 2012  

This story is about hopeless habit of pointing fingers at the action or the one who “angers you.” I call it “Where to focus when you are upset.”

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Story: Setting the Cat Down

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on March 15, 2005 by Al TurtleJune 27, 2012 2

This is a story about the lessons of speaking up too fast. I call it “What to do if you interrupt someone?”

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Story: The Troubles with a Short Temper

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on March 15, 2005 by Al TurtleFebruary 8, 2019  

I tell this story , as a gift from my friend Jack, to anyone I meet who has a short temper or who is around someone with a short temper.

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Story: Loading the Horse

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on March 15, 2005 by Al TurtleFebruary 8, 2019 4

Persuading someone is quite a skill. I am not talking about manipulation. Here I am speaking of how to get someone to do what you want – openly and honestly.

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Story: The Old Dog

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on March 15, 2005 by Al TurtleFebruary 8, 2019  

This seems to me the story of just about every addictive behavior I can think of. The person complaining is the one who's got to do something. Responsibility rests in the complainer.

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