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  2. Hi Al

    My Name is Sumeeth and I feel really depressed and confused at this moment. My wife and I have been married for almost 3 years now and during this time she has left me to go back to her parents for more that 5 time now. When she feels that she can’t take it anymore she calls her dad and then she goes however this time she has went and she say she is considering a divorce as she is tired of us arguing and with me have contact with other females (which I work with) and with me always putting my parents as “priority”. We have a beautiful baby girl who is 2 years now and I feel really sorry for as she is going to be really affected by our actions.

    My wife is a person who hates me having any contact with female even if its work related, to her it means I have something to do with them other than work as she knows I’m a friendly person and she thinks that I would proberbly cheat on her with them because she has a low self esteem about herself.

    I always tell her that I won’t do that as I love her and her only and I would never to anything of that as I wouldn’t have chosen her if I wanted to do that. She also feel that every finance decision needs to be comunicated to her even if its a mere cool drink that I may buy and tell me that she has the right to know. Yes I do tell her but after I buy the stuff and that’s only because I don’t think it would be a problem but lately that is becoming a huge issue and I’m not sure if that’s the real issue or if she was looking for something to make a problem so that she can leave?

    I really love my wife and I’m really missing her allot and my baby girl as well and all I want I’d for us to be happy as a family without unnecessary issues which becomes problems. I never beg her to come back as in the past that’s what I used to do and she would come back but I want the arguements to slow down as that really robbes us from spending quality time together.

    Please can you help me with dealing with this situation as to whether I should run after her or stand my ground show her that all needs to stop. But in doing so do you think that she will drift away and I will be making her decision more easier to file for a divorce as she will be seeing that I am not worried about her? Please help me as I am very depressed and feeling down and out.

    Thank you for your assistance

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