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Avoiding Transpersonal Pernicious Behavior in a Group

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on November 2, 2006 by Al TurtleJune 26, 2012 1

Some more thoughts on Guiding a Communologue Group. A new guideline added on Nov 1, '06.

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Posted in Boundaries, Peace Building | Tagged boundary, dialogue, feelings, make sense, master-slave, mastertalk, point of view, safety, share, trust | 1 Reply

A Problem with Mirroring. Solve it.

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on June 7, 2010 by Al TurtleAugust 12, 2020  

As I was learning to Mirror (a skill taught by all Imago therapists), I ran into a specific problem that often blocked communication just while people were trying to improve it. Solving this problem, I think, is critical to maintaining good relationships

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Posted in Communication | Tagged dialogue, feelings, Imago, mirroring, share, trust, validation | Leave a reply

Earn it or Spend it: Interpersonal Capital

Al Turtle's Relationship Wisdom Posted on January 31, 2006 by Al TurtleMay 28, 2014 2

A simple look at ways of getting people to do what you want and like you. "What can you do to make them inclined to do what you want. What are you doing that makes them not inclined to do what you want."

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Posted in Main Page, Skills | Tagged boundary, dialogue, mirroring, share, trust, validation | 2 Replies

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