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		<title>Welcome</title>
		<link>http://www.alturtle.com/archives/1350</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Apr 2012 02:57:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Al Turtle</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I hope you are looking for a great relationship for yourself, the skills to get along well with anyone, and ways to make the world a better place.&#160;&#160;If you have, I&#8217;ve got ideas to share with you.&#160; Here are some &#8230; <a class="more-link" href="http://www.alturtle.com/archives/1350">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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		<title>Which Essays are Popular? (Updated Feb 1st, 2012)</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Apr 2012 02:04:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Al Turtle</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[People are taking the time to read, download, and hand out my articles - over 100,000 readers in the last year read half a million articles.  This is pretty powerful stuff, and  I am very gratified that so many are valuing it. My deep goal is, of course, to get to the children.  "Happier couples raise healthier kids." And this advice works with any kind of relationship.  With your help the world is a little better, a little more connected, than when we found it.  Thanks. <a class="more-link" href="http://www.alturtle.com/archives/1351">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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		<title>All My Pictures Are Here</title>
		<link>http://www.alturtle.com/archives/1441</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Apr 2012 18:16:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Al</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Photos]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[If you&#39;ve come here, it may be that the link you used pointed to some picture somewhere on my website. &#160; Pictures on this new site are confused. &#160;Until I can figure out how to fix all the links, you &#8230; <a class="more-link" href="http://www.alturtle.com/archives/1441">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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		<title>Sunrise Cabo San Lucas from our room</title>
		<link>http://www.alturtle.com/archives/1352</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Feb 2012 22:25:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Al Turtle</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Mexico]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[From our room at Pueblo Bonito Blanco.  Cruise ship on horizon coming in. <a class="more-link" href="http://www.alturtle.com/archives/1352">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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		<title>One Liners that have helped me stay Dialogical</title>
		<link>http://www.alturtle.com/archives/1348</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Oct 2011 23:58:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Al Turtle</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Skills]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[I can think of nothing as important as getting to be, and staying, Dialogical.  It makes possible solutions to all the relationship troubles.  
This is the list of one line reminders that I have used over the past 15 years to remind me of "a better way of getting along."  I often have had a piece of paper with one of these phrases on my wall (sometimes many walls) at home or in my office where I can see it every day.  These are learning tools. <a class="more-link" href="http://www.alturtle.com/archives/1348">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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		<title>Relationship Posters for the Wall</title>
		<link>http://www.alturtle.com/archives/1347</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 02 Oct 2011 22:26:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Al Turtle</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In many ways, I am a slow learner.   I have used many white sheets of paper with a saying on it.  I posted these on the walls at my home and at my office, to keep reminding me over and over until my thick brain “get’s it.”  Here are a bunch of them. <a class="more-link" href="http://www.alturtle.com/archives/1347">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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		<title>Triage: Seeing trouble in Relationships Around You</title>
		<link>http://www.alturtle.com/archives/1345</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 09 Jul 2011 16:14:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Al Turtle</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Boundaries]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am beginning to use the word Triage to apply to the question, "How much should I get involved? How much energy is it wise to expend on this person? / this couple?" <a class="more-link" href="http://www.alturtle.com/archives/1345">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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		<title>Why to Learn Validation?</title>
		<link>http://www.alturtle.com/archives/1344</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Jun 2011 16:54:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Al Turtle</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Diversity]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was asked recently the simple question, "What&#39;s the big deal about Validation? Why is it so sought after?"  This is what came to mind. <a class="more-link" href="http://www.alturtle.com/archives/1344">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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		<title>Where do you start? What goes first?</title>
		<link>http://www.alturtle.com/archives/1349</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Apr 2011 08:56:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Al Turtle</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I often get asked this, and fortunately for me the answer is clear.  But let&#39;s state the question more clearly. If I am in a couple, a relationship, what do I/we focus on first, second, third, etc. to make things better.  Ok, here we go.
The answer arises from two different major principles: the Anna Karenina Principle and the Biological Dream. <a class="more-link" href="http://www.alturtle.com/archives/1349">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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		<title>Pacific Sunset from Moclips, WA</title>
		<link>http://www.alturtle.com/archives/1341</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Feb 2011 17:34:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Al Turtle</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Pacific Northwest]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[2-Feb-2011 <a class="more-link" href="http://www.alturtle.com/archives/1341">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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