Hi Al, I visited your site in 1/2008. I liked it very much and read many articles. However, I could not find articles on the topic related my situation: Married: partner having an affair. A year and half later, both I and my partner are thinking of or moving toward leaving. It seems to me awfully hard to save the marriage after infidelity. It hurts so much to think about ending our relationship after knowing each other for 22 years. Could you finish the articles on what to do and how to heal after an affair? Or could you give me some hints on the directions to go? I would truly appreciate it. Nancy