I just want to thank you so much for this website and especially this page with the Procedure for Restructuring Resentment" list. My Fiance' and I have been fighting a lot and I was feeling hopeless to fix things. It was obvious there are big issues underlying all of this stupid, petty arguements. We both came to the conclusion we resent one another for various reasons. Unable to figure out how to fix the resentment my fiance' laughed as he walked to the computer saying, "...I don't know what I'm doing either. Look at me I'm going to Google." We found this page and went through the checklist step by step. It REALLY helped us feel better! AND I have hope we can make things work now because we have this tool to use each time something comes up. Thank you so much for giving us a little hope!!!!