Hi, I have been avidly reading all of the informative articles on your site, and I find that each is a great learning opportunity. I would like to hear some more information regarding the "When to Fold 'Em" topic. My SBTX and I have frequent but extremely brief email exchanges and phone conversations regarding children and finances. We also exchange brief pleasantries, but don't talk about anything esle (we agreed NC unless necessary). We are currently separated and are planning to divorce, which I don't want, after debt is paid off. The above examples seem to not apply in this type of situation? How do you approach if you already have to have contact?