Oh. Wait a minute, if I have a passive master that makes me a slave! So, as a slave and yup I sure resent all the work put into trying to figure out what my passive master needs, I need to stop being a slave immediately and somehow lead him out of passive master role. I resent the constant vigilance, and I fear the backlash of not doing all of those things that supposedly I'm supposed to do. Not that they're "working." or that I ever figured out the "right" things. Why did it take me almost 4 months of reading this stuff to realize I was a slave? Wow.