Hi Al, I just broke up with my girlfriend of 6 months. The thing is, I am not sure if she is my Imago match or not. If she is, I am thinking of pursuing her back. Initially, when I went after her, I was lonely. But I went ahead anyway because in my mind, she had all the good qualities a woman should have. And I sort of convinced myself that I could love her. We had some chemistry, although it was not very great. Some times when I talked to her, I often felt that we were not really connecting. Having said that, there were lots of occasion where I felt I am one with her and it just feels right. However, there were also lots of occasion where my doubts were high. Because of this, often I felt unhappy while I was in the relationship. I often looked at other women and thinking how my life would have been so much better if I were with other woman. I also felt guilty for continuing the relationship because I felt like I was lying by hiding something from her i.e. that she might not be my type but I was with her. In the end, I ended up the relationship because I just could not stop lying. My question is could she be my Imago match? If she is, how come the chemistry was not so great? Am I forcing myself to like her? Thanks for your answer.