Deja Vu. The same thing happened to me too at around the same time. My all around avoid-er and live in BF decided that he needed "space" to figure things out on his own. I wish he was clingy in the sex department, but that's what triggered it this time. Two days before Valentines I come home with 2 bags of stuff from the sex shop and ask if he has any ideas of how to spice up our sex life. It snowballs into how he can never make me happy and wants to be able to go out drinking with the guys and not have to tell me when he'll be home. So now I've got a new apartment and am doing the whole no-contact thing, half that he'll come back around and half hoping that he'll fade in my memory so that I can move on to a guy who doesn't treat me like I'm invisible.