This site might be very useful for me. My husband of 16 years moved out after 6 weeks of verbally and action wise making it clear he has no idea if he wants to stay with me. Switched back and forth between agreeing to counseling (something he needs and i have started), wanting to work on it, not wanting to, and giving many excuses as to why he is tired of dealing with me, has no energy for me and isnt happy and needs to see if he can be happy "alone". he also has not been honest about alot and has a (hx) tendency to get caught in his "mistruth's" and then get defensive.I am miserable and have startedworknig on healing myself. He syas he doesnt know if he will be coming back and doesnt know how long he'll be "finding" himself. We also have a 12 yr old who is devastated as well. Am i being naive and foolish? I do love him and know he still has something for me. But, he walked out and also expects me to help him "fund" this little break from reality and the real world! Along, with our regualr bills and daily life. (he says he'll still contribute his check into our account, but thats where the money for him to stay somewhere else will come from as well.) I make slightly more than him and I feel this is unfair since he wont give me a timeline or whether he's going to come back or not. He knows how i feel and repsonds by saying I dont know right now. Swears up and down there is no one else. I'd love to believe that but he has broekn my trust completely. Any advice?