http://www.alturtle.com/blog Original articles, essays and charts of the collected wisdom of 35 years of working with couples in trouble. What works if you don't want to live alone on a desert island. Also fun pictures. en-us Sun, 05 Feb 2012 05:44:13 -0800 Couple's Histories Blogware Al Turtle http://www.alturtle.com/blog/_archives/2006/8/27/2269433.html http://www.alturtle.com/blog/_archives/2006/8/27/2269433.html Tue, 29 Aug 2006 17:13:44 -0700 A wife asking for help at recovering trust for herself in her relationship after she and "he" have separated, come back together, and she no longer believes that he had been faithful during the separation time. Couple's Histories Al Turtle http://www.alturtle.com/blog/_archives/2005/10/26/1324074.html http://www.alturtle.com/blog/_archives/2005/10/26/1324074.html Wed, 26 Oct 2005 11:52:47 -0700 This is so common. Oh, I feel sorry for everyone involved. I think I have seen this situation 6 times this month. A person calls in, ?their whole life has changed?, ?their dreams are shattered?, and ?they don?t know what to do.? Their partner of 5 years, 14 years, 33 years, has announced they are leaving, or they have packed up and gone, or they have found someone new and now want to cut the ties with their ?older? partner. The person calling feels surprised, betrayed and hurt. What to do? Solving Problems Couple's Histories