I hope you are looking for love, a great relationship for yourself, and maybe eventually a durable marriage, or even just the skills to get along well with anyone, and ways to make the world a better place. If you have, I’ve got lots of ideas to share with you. This page is one of the hubs from which to start your studies. 
There are several hundred articles on this site, and they ARE organized. But people who come here are not so organized. They often want just one answer to one question. Well, some sample questions are below. Some answers are in a fun article called Using My Logic. You can search for words or phrases in your question. Google and other Search Engines seem to like me. So try a search for “Al Turtle frustration” (your word or phrase) and see what happens. Or maybe you want to have my view of Where to Start. In any case, click on How to Use this Website to see the general structure and to start finding your way around. Here are some specific topics:
- What to do when he/she leaves you?
- What to do when he/she won’t talk?
- What to do when he/she won’t make a decision?
- Help! What’s going on with Marriage? Here’s a Map.
- Where to Start in making a better relationship?
- And you’ll need this: PreValidation.
- How to get rid of resentments?
- Clinging or Avoiding? What to do.
- How to get him/her to do what you want?
- Stop the arguing. But what then? (Master/Slave)
- Whose fault is it, anyway? Who is to Blame?
- Did he/she do something “out of the blue?”
- Secrets! How much should you share?
- FAQ – The most asked questions and solutions.
- Having a Bad Day! What to do?
- What is Empathy? You’ll need it.
- What is all this about being “victim?”
- Finding Mr. or Ms. Right
- Building and Rebuilding Trust? And Safety?
- Boundary Skills?
- Boundaries in a Relationship?
- How to Use this Website?
- Hey! Get to Work!
- When to Give Up?
When two people come together, they have a choice: to move toward Peace or to move toward War. The choices and the actions/habits that go with them are clear when one studies couples who are successful at bringing lasting Peace and those who are not. (Sadly, most people I meet chose war!) What do you chose? Here's my essay on this situation.
A fun article with labels for the different types of relationships. Tis all based on my 
I am beginning to use the word Triage to apply to the question, "How much should I get involved? How much energy is it wise to expend on this person? / this couple?"